Angela, I wouldn't put too much stock in "acts of service" being his primary LL. My wife put that down too while still in her EA. It's because they want you to focus on the day to day stuff, while the OP fills their needs for affection, touch, admiration etc. They don't want those things from you, the LBS. This is classic cake eating. Sounds like he is keeping you at arms length while he figures out if it will work with someone else. I'd bet that if you two were in a good marriage again, his primary LL would go right back to physical touch!
