Hi MP. I've just come across your thread from NQ's thread. I'm sorry to hear that you are here, but I just want you to know that you are not alone in this. As someone said on here, this is a typical scenario. My H left me for an OW in 2000 and came back 8 months later and wanted to start again. This time he's been away for about 5 months. He is definitely 100% in a MLC, as confirmed by his mum last night when I was on the phone to her. Her words were he's told her that he's 47 and wants something better in his life. He's miserable with me and wanted to move on. I'm not pinning on my hopes on his return, but I have a tiny bit of hope that he will return one day. He told me he wanted a D back in June. So far he's not done anything about it as he can't afford it. It's a horrible sitch to be in You seem to have the right attitude as regards to the separation agreements by getting yourself a solicitor and sorting it out that way. I just wish that none of us have to go through this Stay strong, we're here for each other
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
