H's friend and I have cooled it down quite a bit. I got really busy preparing for a trial last week and couldn't really talk to him. That started the cool down. I found out he is in an R, actually just got M, but she is in another country with no Visa. He knows I am not done with H. I think I'm over the enticement of the possibility of his being interested in me. We are going to try to get a beer as friends this weekend.
I think this is a personal decision, but I seriously doubt this stays "friends." Been there, done that. And he's just recently married? Does anyone else here that loud siren noise?