Hi MP, I still have a lot to learn as well. I'll try and pop by your thread later. It took a lot for me to open up on a forum of any sort but I wish I'd done it sooner than I did.
My H hasn't "thought that far ahead" in his words regarding D but the separation agreement was signed today. I haven't closed the door yet but I'm not making promises to anyone as to how long it will stay open. The man I'm married to right now (or should I say separated from) is not the same man I married in 1997. Once in a while I get a glimpse of that man so I know he's still in there but right now he's not able to get out.
NQ, I feel the same about my H. Sometimes I see glimpses of the old H and I feel he's still in there somewhere We're here for each other
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
We're here for each other 