Originally Posted By: NTX_Dad
At this point, I wouldn't believe half of what she says, whether positive or negative. I forget the saying on here, but its something like: "believe only half of what they say or do"


Believe none of what they say and only half of what they do.

NTX_Dad is right - you need to focus on you. That is the only factor in your R that you have any control over. Your W needs to figure things out for herself. If we could change our spouses, I'm sure most, if not all, of us on here would be doing that.


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks