At this point, I wouldn't believe half of what she says, whether positive or negative. I forget the saying on here, but its something like: "believe only half of what they say or do"
Believe none of what they say and only half of what they do.
NTX_Dad is right - you need to focus on you. That is the only factor in your R that you have any control over. Your W needs to figure things out for herself. If we could change our spouses, I'm sure most, if not all, of us on here would be doing that.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks