She asked me for some paperwork today and I told her no.
Don't do anything to block the D, it'll just make her mad and the D will proceed anyway. Do make her do all the work for it, but if she asks you for something that she can't generate herself then by all means give it to her. I'm going through the exact same thing- W has been requesting info for the D and I've been giving it to her.
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She is expecting me to sign everything over to her and still pay for everything too and then quietly go away.
Unfortunately that's not uncommon in D's. Let your L run interference for you on that, you don't need to be the bad guy.
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I am looking forward to being done with this chapter in my life and getting on with my life.
I'm sure she is too. Interestingly, I was just reading an article that talked about how 70% of divorcees regret the D a year later. Obviously in your case it's your W that's pushing it through, but I don't think D will bring either of you the closure you think it will.
