And def let D pick out something she wants to do, in fact sit down at the computer and let her go crazy, within reason. You might find out some things about your D you didn't know before.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
