I wanted to let you know my W told me she loved me, wanted to be with me, etc, 4 days ago. Today, she just says we need to be divorced, even as she told me she loved me.
Don't sweat it - seriously. Most WAS are in a "fog" - basically swaying and whipping around at the whim of whatever emotion comes through them. Just as your H's jacket triggered a thought in you, I'm certain a sock on the floor can trigger anger and resentment in them, and they dip back into the fog. My W has said almost everything you said your H said - "We're broken" and all that rot.
I will say too, my biggest setbacks with W are when I lose my temper - so mind the comment above about not losing it. I don't cuss and yell and say nasty things, but it just triggers fear in W.
Also, good for you for your comment on not texting/phone/email/begging. When my W said the whole love you thing for the first time in 6 weeks, I had stopped texting and calling and limited interactions to a few necessary times in the span of a couple weeks.
