So the plot thickens I guess. I'm trying not to jump to conclusions. W doesn't really lie. I don't recall every catching her in a lie other than like a birthday part surprise. So I have a strong tendency to believe in her.
Monday, she came over crying saying she loved me, wanted to be married to me, she had been fighting against God, and asked if we could start dating, etc.
Tuesday, she still said she loved me, but now was thinking dissolution might still be best.
Wednesday - she had a working interview, and she desperately needs a job. S5 had a fever at school so I picked him up for her and watched him. (cake-eating?)
Thursday - I was going over to the house where she is staying to watch football with friends. We had been talking on the phone, and I said I'd just come early to talk in person, cause I like that better. W actually said "I love you" on that call.
I got there, and she was gone. I texted her, and she said she had gone to "drop off cupcakes at a party" and to Walmart and she'd be back in a bit. The lady where she is staying pulled me aside and told me she didn't think W was being truthful with me, and said W was still disappearing for awhile, leaving kids behind, etc. I left after awhile, kinda sick, and I guess she was gone for almost 3 hours. Later, I got a little passive-aggressive and congratulated her for being so good at fooling me, but apologized, and explained I was upset. Admitting it on here for the 2x4.
So, I don't know. What kind of person does what she did on Monday, says 'I love you', and then just goes and does weird stuff that looks like an affair? I immediately think cake-eating, but the only thing I've done in weeks is picking up S5 for a few hours on Wed. What other reason would you string someone along?
