WR, They think everything should remain the same when it comes to them being taken care of financially by us. They don't stop to think about the consequences of their actions being that divorce means removing each other from joint situations. Poor baby...well life isn't always a bed of roses and he's just starting to get a taste of what life will be like once everything is settled.
He's not going to go away. You have children together and you'll have to have some contact w/him because of this. I don't have children and I'm still dealing w/my xh periodically.
There will come a time when you will be able to tell him how you feel about everything. When it comes to the finances, be firm and direct w/him. He needs to understand that you are not going to be the one to take on all of the family finances as well as his. Those days are over.
I do hope that you have something pleasant planned for the weekend. You need a break to wipe out the cobwebs of mlc.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
