Help!! H is pressuring me to read the separation agreement and agree to how we divide up our stuff. He said he wanted to talk to me about it last night, but I got home later than expected and I went to bed. He thinks I am stalling.

This was his talk with me this morning..

"There is a hard way and there is an easy way to do this"...

He wants me to sit down and talk about how we separate everything we have shared together for the last 14 years!! He has no clue that that is so hard for me right now. And he see that by me NOT sitting down with him, then I don't want to work with him on the separation and his D. He then tells me that if I contest it, it will be difficult...

I don't know what to do.. I am so frustrated.. frown


OLD THREAD:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2380569#Post2380569

Me: 44
Him: 51
Married: 9 years
Together: 14 years