//something does not ring true or "right" in there.//
I can't figure it out. I know that the relationship in Hiati is sexual. I have no idea about the others. She has this tremendous need for affirmation from men. I think that is what she is after. She doesn't desire sex, but is willing to use it to get her emotional needs met.
Her mom thinks she was sexually abused by her dad as a child. I always thought this was bitterness from their divorce. My W has always denied it. But, after listening to her deny having sex with me, I really am beginnning to have my doubts. Something is not emotionally right with her, and it goes beyond our marriage or MLC.
I hope that this is her way of working through this and that she finds healing.