I'm done with the court hearing. It's just a quick 10minute session. In about 3 months, we are officially divorced.
In somewhat a weird day, W started off spewing about my mom and sis. It gotten pretty bad when foul words were mentioned and something about karma. I validated her and this time I try to make things light hearted. W said my mom must be jumping for joy this morning. W kept on saying that I do not understand her feelings towards my family and after some time I told her which 'look' does she wants me to put on to convince her that I do empathize. She thought for awhile and stopped.
After the hearing, we went on to do some accounts separation. On the way there, we talked about our kids and my new start up. W said I haven't a clue about doing business to wanting to invest in it. Advising me to find a new job and I'm already doing it. I touched her arm to reassure her many times and even put arms around her shoulder. She just allows it. It's like we are friends again.
W said the D was good for me as I'm taking better care of my girls. I nodded and smiled.
She even offered to rent out the guest room to me. I said I have to think about it.
What a strange day indeed.


M35 XW34
D5 D4
M 6years T 10years
Bomb 5/2013
Joint Petition signed 6/2013
Moved out end of 8/2013
Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013
D finalized in 3 months - no news yet