I think whenever progress is made, and it is progress, it is never too late.
I appreciate that Ruby, and it made me think. If H were truly done, he would have told me to go to h3ll. Not that he might not after Tuesday, but he is putting in the effort.
Tomorrow is our first Friday review of the finances. We are meeting at my office, which should be neutral territory. I told him that he is welcome to look at my firm finances while he is there.
Since we had our discussion, he's coming home a little bit earlier, not quite dinner time, but close. I haven't tried to contact him at all during the past 2 days.
Today he called me to let me know that he was riding with friends, so I shouldn't plan on him for dinner. I told him I appreciated that he let me know. He also told me he was going to a mini HS reunion type thing that they do once a month tomorrow. And he gave me his dates for his ride to TN.
I have an appointment with a lending counselor before we meet with our accountant on Tuesday. So, Tuesday is a pretty big day for me. I'm going into the accountant meeting with no expectations.
Even if we can find answers to the financial problems, there are other areas of the M that need help. However, getting through this would take off a lot of stress. I know it won't happen with 1 meeting.
H's friend and I have cooled it down quite a bit. I got really busy preparing for a trial last week and couldn't really talk to him. That started the cool down. I found out he is in an R, actually just got M, but she is in another country with no Visa. He knows I am not done with H. I think I'm over the enticement of the possibility of his being interested in me. We are going to try to get a beer as friends this weekend.
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together
