Hey my friend, I did not mean, in anyway, to insinuate that you were not moving forward. Any move, no matter the size, is great. I am sorry if anything I wrote made you feel that.

I forgot you were going to work. That's awesome. Your moves are not small. Getting a job, getting out to meet people, taking time out from dealing with your mom etc, are big things.

As far as your h, you dont need to make a decision until you are ready to.

Your family is your family. We dont get to pick em. And I know how hard it is to deal with an elderly, sick parent. Very tough.

I know it's hard, all this with your sister. Just be true to you, Nero. Do what you feel is right and enough and she is just going to have to accept it.