Last night was weird too. He left for drinks with his work crew and called me 9pm saying he was on his way home to cuddle. I was surprised he was coming home so early and doesn't give much response. He goes,"that's it?" Aren't you hapy in coming home?" He is always looking for me to practically worship him and his actions. It's frustrating. Because i do.
This sounds like a control issue; abusers are good at doing that. Look up "gaslighting" on Wikipedia (since DB won't let us do outside links).
He didn't really come home early out of respect for you; it was so you would praise him for being a good husband. And when you didn't give him what he was looking for, he twisted it around on you. I suppose if you had fawned over him, he would have found some other excuse to be angry at you which you would simply accept as the truth.
I don't think you were being literal but if you were, then do yourself a favor; stop worshipping him!
First, he is doing very little right now that is deserving of praise, let alone "worship". He's acting very much like a spoiled child, and you don't coddle spoiled kids, you paddle their butts and send them to their room.
Second, you are making him responsible for your happiness, which is just as damaging to your relationship as anything he is doing.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement