W is getting more frustrated that the D process isn't moving along as fast as she would like. She asked me for some paperwork today and I told her no. She then secretly took my car key off my keychain and told me that the car is in her name and that I cant drive it until she gets her paperwork.
I contacted my atty. and informed her of what was transpiring. She (atty) placed a call to W's atty. W's atty called my W and told her that she cant take my keys and to give them back. My atty also told me that I could give her the paperwork she asked for.
I feel like I am in high school again with the games she is trying to play only the stakes are much higher. Games like not paying off my credit card in full like we always have. I have had to take over the payments on my credit card to insure that my credit rating is not affected This is a good thing though.
I hope that we can get through this, as W says, amicably. I don't see that happening though. She is expecting me to sign everything over to her and still pay for everything too and then quietly go away. This will not play out the way she is envisioning it in her head. I also need to have a safe environment for my children to live.
I am looking forward to being done with this chapter in my life and getting on with my life. I don't see any hope for reconciliation and really don't like person she has become. I am losing my motivation for trying/hoping that things will get better, ever.
It has only been 7 months since BD but I don't think I can live this way for much longer. I believe its time for me to let her go completely and move on. She has devastated me emotionally and now is wanting to financially devastate me. I know MLCers do this kind of stuff but I think my tolerance for her has reached its end.
