No contact from her family (they don't contact). Mutual friends are not getting involved, but simply say she comes across as happy. Basically while in the country (for our work) she simply lives, eats, does everything with this friend. She doesn't seem to do anything by herself. School holiday time, when as a family we all visited the city (where the rest of family is), we would leave on the first day of holidays and come back on the last day of holidays. The wife would also look so forward to it, letting everyone of the family know, we will be there in 4 weeks, 3 weeks etc. Know she doesn't even tell our boys, if and when she is coming. If she does come to the city, it is for a shorter time. She stays with the SIL when she does, but it was mentioned that the W spent more time texting and talking on the phone to the friend than anything else. That was last time, when the friend wasn't there. The holidays before, the friend was with her and they spent each day doing their own thing. So at this stage in answering your question Mr Bond, I haven't heard anything about her since the last meeting we had, about 6 weeks ago.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.