What made you think that going dark was the best thing to do?
Through the DB coach, we tried different things. Small text messages weekly with a simple positive note (have a good day), then texts with a history reminder as well. Moved onto asking for a coffee or walk. Very little reply or interest shown. Did not want to go for a walk or coffee. Meetings have only been when she wanted them and always to do with getting an answer (solicitor etc). Should I look at trying again Mr Bond? I am open to any ideas.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.