Thank you everyone for the advice and insight into your own stories. I have been very quiet or at least trying to be when I have to be around him. I am still hurt by his words from 2 days ago. However, I still feel love for him. He seems like he is lonely waiting for me to come home to have someone to talk to. But this action is opposite to him telling me that he has never wanted to be with me. But still yet, I have been the person he has and could always count on for the last 14 years.

It is as if he is looking back on what he see as "lost years" and blaming me and the marriage for being unhappy with his life.

I am actually out tonight meeting up with a friend. I plan to be home by 7:00 and like yesterday, he was waiting for me to come home and make dinner.

BTW. one of my girlfriends sent me flowers at home yesterday and the husband was curious....

OLD THREAD:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2380569#Post2380569

Me: 44
Him: 51
Married: 9 years
Together: 14 years