Me 10 months on. Positve agenda.

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Just checked my ipad, and it has been 48 days since any contact with the W. The last time was the talk about changing mortgages and when she needed a hug.
So just some thoughts???????
Sometimes I wonder if the going dark is the best thing?
If she isn't in a relationship and there is no need to see/talk to each other, then what is being achieved?
I simply wonder if my lack of contact is just allowing her to feel she has made the right choice.
I wonder if some contact helps.
Put simply: if she isn't in a relationship with anyone, it would be presumed (based on other sitchs) that she would start to contact me.
If she is in a relationship, then what she is doing is normal.
As Michelle's book says, if it doesn't work, try another way. I keep thinking back to this and wonder if I should be trying another way?

I do still understand that this is about me, to better me. But at this stage, surely most of us still have the hope for our marriage?
While the thinking about the W isn't as much as the early days, the thoughts are still there. Am I going in the right direction or not?