WR, I'm not surprised that he's come back and stated he doesn't have the money to make the entire mortgage payment. I thought he might be leading up to that one from the last conversation you had w/him last month. They love to cry poor mouth so that everyone will feel sorry for them and yes, we end up making up the difference because we aren't sure whether they are really poor or not. So, any guess as to what he's doing w/his money? I think he's really trying to squeeze you to get moving on the refinancing. They are such sneaky little monsters at times.
Well, in a way, I can see his point in letting him know that you removed him from your account. Although, I'm sure he wouldn't have let you know if he had done it to you. He's just pissy because he went to use it and couldn't.
It will get better in time. You have to hang on a little bit longer. If you can get the refinancing done, that will be large load off your shoulders and he'll go away for a bit when he gets his grubby little hands on the money.
Hang in there. Don't let people see you sweat!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.