That's good perspective CompletelyLost, by all means if you can take a stand and maintain your self-esteem while staying in the same house, you should do so.

I got the impression that Hurt84 is not there, and that's why I recommend he may need some distance to come back to the table with the strong stance you are advocating.

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015