This is the point I want to reach as well DFE You know how similar our sitches are and I feel with this latest development that we're just good friends. He's not asked to stay round at night, I need to get back on the 180 wagon quickly!! I've been getting close to him lately and starting to miss him again in the evenings. This is not good as I've been doing so well up to now! I think you're right in putting these boundaries up DFE You've made it quite clear how it's making you feel and if he wants to get close to you then you've given him the go ahead!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!