Husband Threatened to Leave, Don't know what to do

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KenF, thanks also for your words....my husband is a people pleaser and I think when I'm dissapointed or be thinks I am that's when he starts to manipulate me to make him feel better for his actions.

The other night he was really sad and kept saying I think you are mad at me for going out over and over till I said no, that's not true.

The problem is we have friends living with us and be went out with H that night and go wife who lives with us wasn't upset at all and fine with him going
so it's hard to talk about it bothering me when it didn't bother her! But at the same time her H came home at 2 not 3:15. I expected them to come
Home at the same time given they live together but no.

I sometimes question OW in times like these. I just never know how to tell...