watch how he manipulated the situation: he acts immaturely and as a bad husband/father, then he "got down on himself", and your response is to try to make him feel better. then he leaves guilt free, believing he has you fooled and you've been tricked into rewarding him for bad behavior.
I found it somewhat annoying that be brought this all up hours before he was heading out for yet another "guys" night. He talks the talk but his actions are the opposite. And you are right, I used the next few minutes saying whatever I could to make him feel better.
Last night was weird too. He left for drinks with his work crew and called me 9pm saying he was on his way home to cuddle. I was surprised he was coming home so early and doesn't give much response. He goes,"that's it?" Aren't you hapy in coming home?" He is always looking for me to practically worship him and his actions. It's frustrating. Because i do.
M: 31 H: 29 Married: 6 yrs Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old
Separated: Sept. '09 Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09 Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10 Threatening to leave again: July,14
