It's so uplifting to read threads with good news in them. Glad to hear you and your H are getting on at the moment.

I've told my H that I'm here if he needs to talk and also that, even though he's now said he's done trying, I'm still prepared to close that door, at least for now. Tuesday night after he told me he was done trying, he actually gave me a hug for the first time in weeks.

Whatever you've been doing seems to be working, so keep up the good work. Just remember not to rush things.


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks