My H originally didn’t want to do the official D, he said that it would be beneficial to stay married for financial reasons. He said it last October when we last had a relationship talk. He was MIL all fall and winter, letting me to take care of the bills and other stuff. He brought up a D subject in April and wanted to do the paperwork together. To which I told him to go ahead and do it on his own and send it to me, so I could sign it and pass it top my lawyer. I didn’t hear anything about D since.
I think he is not interested in me, I don’t know if he misses me, but I know he thinks about me. He sent me a fun video about the dogs a few days ago. This makes me believe that he thinks about me, at least once in a while (besides the business matters.)
Originally Posted By: labug
You just never know but I think the best thing you can do is let the WA get over whatever their hurt and pain without continually reminding them of why they left.
I completely agree with this. I pretty much left him alone. The only thing I still need to do is to stop discussing my sitch with our mutual friends, just like you advised me on my thread.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
