Ya. Agree Bug. Trust is the toughest. I would trust H with my life. With our kids' lives. To trust him with my heart is something totally different
That is the tough part. Do you think when we have completely forgiven and let go of our spouses it would be easier to trust again? I think I would always be watching for signs (red flags) and waiting to strike first lol in the ILYBNILWY statement... Basically I would have to get over ME.
Do you think that is where your husband is today? Loves you but, has been hurt and feels like he cannot trust you?
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
