Your posts really helped me today! We have some similarities in our sitches...as my husband is still at home, too.
He has, also, bounced back and forth between wanting to stay and wanting to go (all summer....ugh!)...and we have also had some good days/weeks here lately. My H's depression seems to be getting better, a little at a time.
I also struggle with wanting to know RIGHT NOW where our R stands...so it's hard to just "chill out" and let things be.
Like ForeverYoung said above about your husband, he's still there...and that's a good thing. He can see the positive changes you are making in yourself and can be reminded that he actually does like to spend time with you.
Sounds like you're doing a great job. Thanks for your posts!
