If it makes you feel better, I'm assuming that my Wife may have sold her rings after our conversation on July 1st . It had an insured value of 14K but she may have gotten 5K to 6K with a wholesale buyer (which is about what I paid for it). If she did sell it, I'd be disappointed but it also is a way to put the past in the past and divorce yourselves from the difficulties of the past too. I know she always loved that ring, so maybe I'm wrong and she still has it. I keep mine in my car but I don't wear it right now. Maybe yours will turn up soon.
It's funny how actions speak louder than words when you mention your H fixing your son's bike and doing the cooking. Hearing that from a female reinforces the need to prove yourself.
You talk about "...act as if whatever he does doesn't affect me." is crucial even if your stomach is tied in knots because you have total control on how you react to your emotions. To train yourself to rein them in is hard work and takes practice because it's easy to take things personally.
Thanks for the kind words as there's not a lot of people that will say those things to me right now and it helps a lot to hear from a female. Keep me posted on your progress!
Me: 42 WAW: 37 Kids: 0 Separated: 06APR13 M:7 Years, T:10 years WAW states she wants to "move on": 01JUL13 "Courage is the standing army of the soul which keeps it from conquest, pillage, & slavery."
. It had an insured value of 14K but she may have gotten 5K to 6K with a wholesale buyer (which is about what I paid for it). If she did sell it, I'd be disappointed but it also is a way to put the past in the past and divorce yourselves from the difficulties of the past too. I know she always loved that ring, so maybe I'm wrong and she still has it. I keep mine in my car but I don't wear it right now. Maybe yours will turn up soon. 
