Attraction, oxytocin, and limerence

[2ndtimearoundCA]

Not an engineer, but I get your point. Thanks. .. Here is what I understand to be true.

We try something new that we think might help in our situation. If we get a positive result, then keep doing that. If we get a negative result, then stop.

I am just looking for ideas of things to try; things that have worked for others in similar situatuations...