Haven't been posting much, but have been following your posts and have been really encouraged by how well you do this db stuff. You were always a role model for me when I would shift into negative/panic mode. You helped/help me chill when I needed to chill, which has been often over the past several months.
Question for you. How will you know when your wife has chosen one of the two options? Is it possible that the way she has been acting is her way of telling you she is trying to reconcile? Not sure her communication style but in my wife's case, I am literal and she tries to speak through actions (and I wonder why we don't always understand each other :)).
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"
