That sounds great, lth. You're being very proactive.
I saw an article about zero negativity and tho it sounds pie in the sky, it actually makes a lot of sense. When you have issues come up you leave judgment out and only speak when you can do it without negatives. That means you might remain silent a lot. It sounds like you're doing something similar.
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Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss