Did you say you were an engineer?

All of what you say could be true and it can be untrue, depending on the situation. I just read Bond's post, pretty much what I just said.

Leave her be, let her figure it her life out.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss