The problem is, those people don't see the "making of the sausage" of marriage. The possibility is that every time someone says that the WAS thinks, yes, but you don't live with her, reinforcing their decision.

WE have no control over others, so it's just a hazard of social situations.

Just keep giving him the space to heal his wounds.

I think H and I are in a trust-building phase right now.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss