I actually think its good that he is taking a break from a project. Support his decision, pamper him. He is headed in the right direction, go easy on him.
BklynMom, I am glad you wrote that and I think you are right! A huge issue for us right now is that we seems to be at odds with each other about EVERYTHING! Whatever stance one of us makes about a decision, the other one will usually take the OPPOSITE stance, it seems. No wonder we do not feel like much of a team at all! I will try to support his decisions regarding the basement from now on. (and try not to worry so much about his motives for everything).
I think that a 180 for me would be to go along with more of his ideas.. hopefully one day he will return the favour to me and be more supportive of me and my ideas/decisions.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.
