So sorry about your loss. Thankfully, she went peacefully. And yes, they do want to touch base with those who shared their history.

I am glad that you are getting a much deserved reprieve from your family's drama.

I wrote something to you about change on my thread.

Here's what I think. I do what I think is right, what is best for me, what I can handle.

And I have come to a point in my life where that is what is important. And if there are people who dont agree, I cannot control that. That's on them.

So, my friend, you can continue to stand, but, dont stand still.

Life is short, Nero. I would like to see you start living it more. If you keep looking over your shoulder, you cant see whats ahead.