Originally Posted By: chl0901
H has been in a funk the past couple of days - his job is really stressful and he is getting a lot of pressure lately from his bosses (because he is a hard worker, they just keep piling more and more on him instead of splitting it between he and his co-workers).


Your H sounds a bit like I used to be in my previous job. I would never tell the boss I was overwhelmed with what I already had to do and would always take on more work. Not always a good thing.

At least you know that is what is causing his funk. Makes it a lot easier knowing you're not the cause


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks