Nero, I am sorry to hear about your h's aunt. God has a way of taking care of things and she went very quickly and peacefully at home. My condolences to you and your family.
I think that as we age, we begin to notice more and more people departing this earth. I have seen quite a few people pass away this year, but more so in my age bracket and not in the 70-90 age bracket. Many of them were suicides.
I will keep her in my prayers.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.