The "secret" is to become the best person you can become, which means you will be happier in the long run, no matter what your w does. Truly believing that you are going to be fine, regardless, gives a confidence that many find attractive.
But I found that when I really let go of my m, turned it over to God, & just worked on ME, that is when my h began his own shift home. Not overnight, but there were unmistakable signs that he had noticed changes in me, which intrigued him
I wanted to highlight this again for you, I really hope you understand what is being said here.
Originally Posted By: planet
Sounds like breaking up this relationship in order to build a new one?
YEP!! Now it's time to build up a new you, in order to build up a new relationship. It is time to look at you and your behavior and change the parts of you that did not work. You truly have been given a gift, the opportunity for you to make changes in you so that you are the best person you can be. It's tough work and I believe you can be successful.
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
