Well...dipstick turned out to need more than a simple oil change in my book!
Thanks again, Betsey for the wonderful chat last night. You put things in perspective for me and I appreciate your time.
Okay, the 'abridged' version. He's a Peter Pan who chose his dirt bike over me! The longer version... He told me he lived in a loft in downtown Denver. It turned out to be a three room dump in which he stores his dirt bike, mountain bike and boxes of crap in his living room. I'm sure I dated this guy when he was 20 or somewhere around there. He hates his job, his commute, has no health insurance, no retirement and no money. He showed me pics of his 5,000 square foot home he HAD in Atlanta before the economy tanked in 2008 and he lost everything. Okay, please don't judge me as a materialistic person, but I really need to play with someone in my own league in this respect. I've worked and sacrificed so hard for the past 30 years and I just don't want to start over with someone. He's not in a good place emotionally and said he's not stable now and has no idea what he's doing. Umm...no thanks! The icing on the cake was when he asked me to play golf on our first date. He asked for the next Sunday and I agreed. Well, when this Sunday came around and I texted him at 11 asking when we were going to play I got no response for three hours. He then texted back that he was working on his jeep in a city near the mountains. Sorry, but everything in me didn't believe him. Later that night we talked on the phone and he said we didn't have a "set plan/time" Okay, then why didn't he send a quick text to check in on Sunday morning? That's what a guy INTO me would have done. VERY disappointed to say the least....
At this point I'm done. Taking a break to enjoy fall golf and football. Sigh....:(
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
