And quit saying a year! It's been 18 months since BD and 21 since Mom died and this all started! I'm not doing the last 9 months over! Ok, still not 2 years and I get your point... it's probably still be early.
OK if I had an EDIT button here I would go change my post to 18 months
Sorry for having the facts wrong and no I would never want you to have to repeat the last 9 months but I am at over 4 years and speak from a different perspective.