So I dont think you can make an empty threat and it will have any weight.
No threats here. Only Reality.
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I also think that her crisis so far has been very mild. The downside to that is I think it will take much longer. Higher energy sometimes burns the fire quicker. Just my .02
Which is why I sometimes think pushing her a bit may speed things up. "Get on with finding yourself sweetheart." You want out? Make your move.
And quit saying a year! It's been 18 months since BD and 21 since Mom died and this all started! I'm not doing the last 9 months over! Ok, still not 2 years and I get your point... it's probably still be early.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
