Thank you all for the advice. Cadet, yes, his actions are not very conclusive. However, tonight I cook dinner and then during dinner, he wants to discuss how we separate things. I told him that I I am not against him, so he can draft whatever he thinks is appropriate and I will review. Well, he begins to cry and say that we have to do it together. I think he is felling guilty that he wants and is asking for D. But he wants "us" to work together to draft the agreement so he feels better about it. I am not going to help him, but I am also not going to be a "b%tch" about it. He is crying and I feel really said about that. I wish I could hug him, but he went to the spare bedroom. He will be in our master bedroom to get dressed in the morning. So strange......
How to I keep him from pushing me to talk and separate our belongings?
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Me: 44 Him: 51 Married: 9 years Together: 14 years