Well said, AS!!! I guess you could say we've become "vets" now, huh? Not experts, not masters of the future, but experienced and survivors of what will be one of the most difficult experiences of our lives.

On my journey I have had people in my lives who make me realize how LUCKY I am! A friend's H has TBI & is basically an invalid at age 40; my SIL just had a double masectomy; my mom's best friend passed away unexpectantly at age 60 and most sadly and closely to me, my MIL died from ovarian cancer last Aug at age 66.

Sorry to invade your thread, AS...my point is that each of here will be okay, and I for one and hopeful for a happy an fulfilling life ahead....with a few major bumps in the road just ahead! smile

Sorry to hear about your pending D, but I know you are going to be more than fine, AS! When you succeed to make such tremendous personal growth and find YOURSELF again on this tumultuous you have set yourself up for a future full of wonderful things!


M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.