Hi everyone,

H came back a day earlier than anticipated. I am trying not to panic because \I am really not ready for another one of his conversations where he makes an announcement such as the one when he said that he wants to separate. Every time he says he wants to talk, it is always negative news, and for some reason he always comes to the bedroom, says what he has to say then leaves me. Then I can't sleep and I cry all night.

I think that I should tell him no more discussions at night in the bedroom. Because honestly,\I can never sleep when he leaves. I am thinking more like going to a coffee place or something. What should I do? The book says, let him come to me right? So I will wait and tell him no more convo at night in the bedroom.

What do you think?

P.S. I am trying to find my happy, signed up for dancing classes


Me 37
H 37
D9
D6
M9/ T12
ILYBINILWY 05/2013
Asked to S 06/13
Said he wants to S for sure 08/13
Said that he's looking for a place (Sept 17/13)
No ring on his finger (Sept 19/13)