Me- LBS or WAS?

[littleGTO]

OMG, AS! Are you reading my mind?!!!
FD"If you had asked me before BD what her strongest trait was I would have told you "loyalty". I would have said "I trust this woman with everything, even my life." Strip away the loyalty and the trust and who is she?"

Change "she" to "he" and you are talking about my H before BD too!!! Family man and loyal H to the end, I thought....not so much.

Lately (since my vaca w boys to my brother's/SIL's & since prob OW and he decided NC) he has made a HUGE effort to be around the boys a lot. He is stepping up with carpooling to activities and trying to be "more present" when he is around them.

Since school has started I haven't seen him too much except on Monday when we separate (at my request) drove to see his S and family.

He's been pleasant enough to me and I continue to be upbeat when I'm around him as much as possible. BUT, he has said nothing about contact w OW (as he started back to work with her 1 1/2 weeks ago). I am not interested in asking at this point.

I don't know where his thoughts are. I am trying to focus on me. Not sure where MY thoughts are.

Not contacting cute guy this week via text. Figure it is better if I text him less or not at all. Last text I sent he did not respond to, so I don't want to torture myself by pursuing something I really don't want anyway (a going-nowhere, physical R w cute guy who only wants to have fun).

(Not that I want I meaningful/deep R with new guy either! ...I don't think...although, ultimately that is what we all want.)