That's an interesting question, he has NEVER said the D word. Soo after bomb drop I was scared to death I was going to get D papers without warning, so I we talked and he said he wasn't even thinking of D.
We talked again about 6 months ago (complete temp check) and he wasn't interested in me, didn't think about me, didn't miss me, and would like to "get this settled." I told him fine, do it.
Nothing.
You just never know but I think the best thing you can do is let the WA get over whatever their hurt and pain without continually reminding them of why they left.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss