Hi Peace I'm glad that you've decided not to confront H about his affair, it's only you guessing anyway based on the evidence you've required I'm also glad that my sitch has helped you decide not to pursue this I wouldn't start thinking about "what ifs" such as Divorce. Don't dwell on D unless something happens. I'd still let him decorate and do it how you want to do it. I don't know why your friend has warned you this is not a good sign. Has she been through a break up herself? IMO, Friends that talk negatively like that should be taken with a pinch of salt. Pretend you agree with her, but don't listen to any negative things she has to say. You're trying to keep up your PMA and this won't do you any good at all! Hang around with more positive friends that will support you in whatever you decide to do I would take professional advice here about your decorating as it obviously bothers you. Do you see an IC or a DB coach? Hope life is not too difficult for you at the mo
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I'm also glad that my sitch has helped you decide not to pursue this 